If you've found yourself asking this question, you're definitely not alone. Breakups can be an extremely frustrating and confusing time. Even when you think things are over, time can heal old wounds and make both you and your boyfriend view the relationship from a different perspective.
If you find your ex boyfriend flirting with you again, there could be several possible explanations. But be warned. Not every reason is a good one.
Why Is My Ex Boyfriend Flirting With Me? Reasons Explained
First, your ex boyfriend may be flirting with you for sinister reasons. If you suspect this is the case, then keep your guard up. You don't want to fall for anymore of his games and end up having your heart broken all over again.
Men sometimes flirt with an ex because they still want to have sexual relationships with her. It's what is classically known as "ex sex". You breakup and start seeing other people, but occasionally find yourself in bed with your ex.
Many men love ex sex because they get all the benefits of having a sexual relationship with someone they are attracted to, but without all the responsibilities that come with being a boyfriend. Essentially, they still get to have you and date other people at the same time. Trust your female intuition to avoid men like this.
A second possible reason your ex boyfriend may be flirting with you again is because he's still in love with you. Perhaps some time has gone by and he's hoping the past can be forgiven. By flirting with you, he can figure out if you still have feelings for him.
He can also use it as a way to let you know he's still attracted to you and still interested in a relationship. If he gets a positive response from you, then he may move into having a more serious discussion with you about getting back together.
Lastly, it's possible your ex boyfriend is just extremely comfortable with you. The flirting may mean nothing at all.
If he was used to flirting with you when you were dating, then he may feel totally comfortable interacting with you in that way. If you're still good friends even after breaking up, then flirting may just be a fun way to communicate with you.
If you don't think it's appropriate for him to still flirt with you since you're no longer together, then you need to let him know. You'll need to be very straightforward and direct with him.
If it makes you uncomfortable, then tell him how it makes you feel and tell him you think it's best if he doesn't flirt with you anymore. Give him examples of things he's said to you which you don't think are appropriate. Otherwise, he may not understand.
If, on the other hand, you're looking for an opportunity to get your ex boyfriend to take you back, then now may be the perfect time. His flirting can be a good sign he's still interested in you and still attracted to you.
If you think he's worth it, go for it.
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Article Added on Friday, February 24, 2012
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