Are they cheating? Are they cheating?
The uncertainty of your partners fidelity can literally ruin your life.
If you are a commited member of a partnership, the suspicion, that your partner may not be as commited or even straying, can weigh heavily on your mind.
Thoughts of what they may be doing right now,scream across your consciousness all the time. You can't focus on your work, or any other activity. Like a cancer destroying your body, these thoughts, are destroying your mind.
Chinese water torture...
Coping with the pain. Coping with the pain.
by: Udo Vieth
Separations are painfull. This is a fact.
Unless you are cold and callous, the loss of a loved one is a numbing experience. In these situations, we tend to retreat into a corner and mope.
That is after the crying is done.
Crying may be the best thing you can do for now. You need time, time to cope with the situation, time to heal if you will. Don't deny yourself this period of "mourning' for want of a better word.
You are not a machine, small steps...
Happy Relationships Happy Relationships
by Udo Vieth
Did you know that apart from financial problems, heck even with financial problems, the biggest threat to a happy relationship is a negative person. Lets face it, if nothing is ever good or positive, sooner or later either the other partner or the relationship itself will not be good enough.
That person will find the negative in any situation, including the relationship. They will find the faults with you, no matter how small. Now if that information was...
Reignite your sex life. Reignite your sex life.
by Udo Vieth
The tempo of modern living can seem to play havoc with our sexual relationships. There are always reasons to put everything else before our sexual gratification. However, the choice is yours.
Do you remember the passion and sexual excitement that got you into the relationship in the first place? That is what life and living is actually all about. Temporary diminishment of sexual desire can happen in any relationship. Illness, relocation, job loss or...
Spiritual Partners. Spiritual Partners.
by: Udo Vieth
Often we hear people talk about searching for their soul mate. Looking for a match made in heaven. And other such statements.
Is this possible. Is there any truth to these statements?
We all know that different religions have different takes on the above, so I will try and avoid making any judgement calls in this area. As a matter of fact, let me state that in the context of this article, that I am not equating Spirituality with religion in any way...
The power of writing. The power of writing..
My heart sank as I glanced at the tattered piece of legal size paper in my hand. I remembered it well, I had written it, many many years ago.
It was my dream list:- my list of things and experiences that I wanted to achieve in my life. It was a very long list, with well over a 100 items on it, scribbled in pencil (just in case I changed my mind?).
The reason that my heart dropped only really came with my next activity - ticking off what I had actually...
Why is Desperate Housewives so popular? Why is Desperate Housewives so popular?
Infidelity and extramarital affairs are rife.
TV shows come and go. Desperate Housewives being all the rage for a time. Oprah even raved about it, as many women swoon at the male stars. However now the men shake their heads in disbelief at the infidelity and other goings on
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But....
Is it all a sign of the times. Remember Sex in the City?
Women being more emancipated, have more freedom, and more resources than anytime in the past. So what...
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